Rabu, 18 November 2015

Laziness

I am not sure who else is experiencing what I am, but my friend is lazy and I hate it. Her mother asked me to cheer her up. She asked me to supervise her daughter completing her bachelor degree. I wonder why she asked me. I didn't even know I had the capability. Then, she started telling me about my friend. She complained about her learning behavior, complained about her 'laziness'. Complained about everything. They argued all the time. She told me that my friend ignored her advices, wasted all of her time in game, manga, anime, selfie photos, and all of things which she named as useless things. It reminds me of my ex. Like my friend's mother, I had to deal with his unwillingness and laziness to complete his academic degree. I persuaded, I forced, but there was no result.

Now, what should I do?
I've tried my best efforts: accompanying her to campus, typing thesis script for her, finding proper research model and material. Unfortunately, she resisted. I'm too tired of dealing with people who don't care with him/herself. I'm too tired of people who don't care with his/her own future. Why should I continue to care about her future when she keep her bad attitudes and laziness? Although I love her as my friend, her laziness is really starting to piss me off to the point I don't want to be tolerant anymore. I can sympathize with her confuseness of facing her problem, but she isn't the only one who has problem. I can sympathize her wanting to relax, to watch anime, to do all her hobbies. I do accept these. But not laziness. Not doing hobbies all the time. She says that her hobbies distress her, but I think it is so much that it is hurting her more than helping her. She has no motivation for anything.

Laziness, no effort, miserable attitude. What's else?

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